[Fishfirst]

Welcome to the awesome world of Saltwater Aquariums... Lets start with filteration
Protein Skimmer and Live rock is the way to go. There are not many choices on the sizes of protein skimmers (at least compared to freshwater filters). If you go the cheap route for skimming, go with prisms or backpacks and go with one that is for 100 gallons or better.
If you go the expensive route I believe the remora has a good reputation. Also I'd get at least a 4 inch sand bed for good filteration. 50-75 lbs is a good amount of live rock.
Lighting - you'll probably want compact florecents or halides 4-5 wpg works for most corals and anemones.
Suppliments for corals and anemones should be iodine strondium and calcium.
You will need test kits for ammonia, nitrites, nitrates, phosphates, calcium, pH, alkalinity, hardness

I would also cut the damsels from your list they tend to get aggressive and drab as they get larger.