In this case I have no where else to turn and he is doing more than a huge favor in letting us return the original setup for a complete refund. When it comes time, the bulbs will be replaced, I am sure that it will be taken care of either by me or my parents will help b/c they don't want to see the tank crash either.
This tank will be moved in a small number of years when it comes time for my butt to move out and when it comes time many things will change and I am sure that if it hasn't already the lighting will be changed by then.
I'm really just not that worried about it, only b/c the only reason the stupid things were changed out was b/c of a decision of my mothers, so the blame is off of me and laid onto someone who will fix the problem before there is anyone to blame
(if that made sense)